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25-03-2019 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 

Water Bondage 

Here is one adventurous way of getting wet – not the wet you are thinking about anyways. Your wetness here depends on how willing you are to dive into the world of total submission – water bondage. 
If you are hearing about this for the first time, that is okay. In this piece, we will be taking a deep look at water bondage and how you can get the best out of it. Let’s go!

 

What is water bondage?

Simply put, water bondage is a situation of a helpless submission that usually happens under water. So, water complements the job of your preferred restrains, and this brings you new dimensions of pleasure, such as breath control, predicament bondage, and water sex among others.


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Water bondage equipment set

Restraints are required, including your ropes, gags, handcuffs, and others. You also need to understand that water bondage scenes usually come with punishment, and sometimes sadism. The positive thing is that you only need to bring in a few tools, considering that you already have most of them, i.e., your shower head that can be set to different speeds and temperature, plus your long large garden hose that comes handy in watering your flowers. 

 

One last thing: this form of BDSM requires a piece of special equipment, which is the Houdini tank. Consider this as the place where all the action goes down. The submissive is immersed and restrained in this tank. You can also use a full immersion tank.  Source: Lovense

 

Where is best to practice water bondage?

Your bathroom or local BDSM dungeon or club are the best places. These venues guarantee your privacy and safety. While at it, however, do not go out of your depth, plus your water must be clean and at the right temperature. Minimize the amount of pressure, and work with only restraints that are water-friendly.


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What scenarios are applicable in water bondage?

The sub can be bounded before being dunked in the water. Another interesting scenario is spraying the sub with water at very high pressure, such that it appears like the sub is getting flogged or caned. For starters, use a shower hose and advance gradually.

 

What basically happens during dunking is the erotic asphyxiation or breath control. The sexual feeling or arousal becomes enhanced when the amount of oxygen reaching the brain is reduced. The options are limitless once the sub is immersed in the water bondage tank – from dildo fucking to vibrator plays and others.

 

Important Safety tips in water bondage

There are dangers associated with water bondage, but this doesn’t beat the intensified sexual arousal and element of risk that comes with it. Even at that, it is expected that the participants undergo a lot of practice before trying it out. If possible, consult someone experienced and discuss extensively on what to expect before proceeding.

 

  • Ensure that your partner is well-experienced in water bondage.Before starting, both of you should agree on a verbal safe word and a non-verbal safe word. The latter is essential because you cannot speak once immersed. Your non-verbal safe word can be a specific arm movement, and while choosing, ensure that it is simple to communicate and understand.
  • Choose a scenario where the sub will be able to breathe easily.Breathing is more challenging with a gagged mouth. So, in the course of spraying the sub, ensure that you do not place them in the instant flow of the water.
  • There is a high level of risk associated with dunking, so do not practice it if you are not well-experienced in full water submission.Inexperienced partners may find it difficult to breathe in such situations.
  • Considering the breath play element, the dorm should understand that the sub may be pushed into the subspace through water bondage.So, always have a plan, in advance, for a session that leads to subspace, as well as aftercare arrangements for such cases. 

 

Lastly, keep in mind that water bondage is not rocket science. However, it demands a lot of practice and care. So, it is best that you take your time to start from the bottom and progress gradually to the top. If you can do this, you will be amazed at how much sexual pleasure this BDSM can offer.


Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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