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24-04-2019 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


Introduction to Facesitting


 

The popularity of facesitting has increased in recent times, with more positive opinions coming up on this adventurous kink.  In this piece, we will be taking a broader look at facesitting and its power, its role as an intense aspect of complete submission and dominance and as a part of a naughty fun.

 

The United Kingdom, in 2014, banned the appearance of facesitting as a pornographic sexual act.  This led to the collective adoption of facesitting by protesters as a means of indicating their disobedience to such ban on a mutual kink activity.  Most kink practices on the brink of restrictions then include the activities that bother more on female pleasure.  While the authorities tagged this move as necessary for safety, it is not surprising that femdom again came up against the move, as it has always done when the women’s sexual autonomy is threatened.


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Pleasure from facesitting


Both parties in facesitting get intense pleasure. The pussy-worshipper’s face is generously washed and rubbed by the pussy juice of their beloved, with the warmth, scent, and wetness radiating to every part of their body and giving them intense ecstasy. The worshipper or submissive feel every sense of responsibility and fulfillment in pleasing his partner, and this feeling of subjugation sure takes the heat to the next level. Source: jaa4u

The dom, in this case, feels inexplicable connotations and vibrations that keep them glued to the spot until they decide they have had enough. In addition to their cunt enjoying the biggest attention in the world, while the cunt owner fantasizes about how powerful they have become in the world of intense lust, facesitting can also be relaxing if the submissive decide to just enjoy the irregular but highly sensual tongue movement on their cunt by the excited submissive.  The pleasure is truly immense!


Facesitting


Safety and facesitting


There are risks associated with facesitting, usually more than what is obtainable in other BDSM scenes. The first source of concern is breath control and coking. Thus, it is essential that the submissive has a means of indicating discomfort whenever he feels one. Pinching or tapping out are good options here. Trust is another thing to be clear about, which usually involves serious pre-negotiation.

 

Getting on top should not be rushed. As fascinating as it may seem or sound, do not forcefully sit on your beloved’s face especially if both are just starting out on facesitting. You can decide to take it a bit further by trying out other methods of restraints, of course in addition to the pussy power. In that case, you can tie the feet or hands. However, you both must come up with a clear distress signal. For example, banging on the floor or bed three times consecutively could mean the need for a break. Alternatively, you can get a bunch of keys and ask the submissive to drop them whenever they feel like stopping.


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The effects of the Queening Chair


The queening chair or queening stool offers more comfort for the dom while reducing the risks that come with facesitting. The chair can be a smother box sometimes, packed with certain furniture that facilitates facesitting. You can have queening chairs in different designs, including the dungeon-like gothic and dark stools, or better still, a colorful plastic stool that appears like a makeup stool to visitors.

 

You can also go for certain designs with wedge shapes or suspended headrests. These are usually adjustable and thus offer more comfort to both parties. If you don’t have a large budget, Etsy is one place to buy building plans for a queening chair, which you can follow to build yours.

 

Finally, facesitting is a kink that can come in the form of complete submission or intense dominance. Alternatively, it could be just for the fun of it. The form it takes with you depends on your preferences and that of your partner.


   

Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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