A submissive is a person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person (Urban dictionary)

For new characters of the BDSM world, it is quite hard to transition from being vanilla one moment and switch to being D/s the next. 

Everyone has his own techniques- and one way is to use a subtle signal by calling the sub with his attributed pet name. Using male submissive names is a signal to communicate to your partner that you are ready to fulfil your D/s role. This mechanism will be a psychological stimulus to prepare your mind for the transition and make your knee weak! 

Male sub names used in a particular context will allow the sub to know what the expectations are of him at any given moment. Once addressed by his real name, the husband will know it is in a partner/husband context, once addressed by his pet name, he knows it is his Goddess talking to him. 

Tips: In the list of submissive names for males, pick a soft one for this purpose - Thus, you will be able to alternate back and forth in front of anyone without anyone being the wiser. 

Example: 

“Patrick, pass me the salt” - Wife talking 

“Prince, pass me the salt” - Dom talking 

Finding names to call a sub is a distinctive way for you to define when you are in a role. 

Example:

Often in a BDSM scene, a male sub embraces a sissy role and a femine, weak persona. Call it this way to assert the dominance. 

Feminize him, or come up with a cute ‘girly’ name to call him, and use it regularly: 

Example: 

Or find a feminie version of a male name: 

Example:

Why not combining the feminie aspect of a name with the power of a majestic plant? Flowers all have a meaning and history attached to them. 

For example, a “Rose” is a special gift you give someone you love. It is also something you cultivate, prune, fertilize, water - Exactly the same a sub should be treated in a D/s relationship.

If it is his likes, some subs will be turned on being called a degrading and humiliating pet name. 

Some words have a great deal of power behind them. It is often spoken with aggression and implied dominance of one using it over the one on the receiving end of it. In short, it is a total turn on for people within this kink. Some words can have the power to put subs in the headspace of extreme submission. 

A male sub kink is to reduce himself in the eyes of the dominant partner, so a pet name for the occasion seems like a great way to achieve it. 

For some people it might seem extreme, but never yuck other’s people’s yum 

Examples:

By the magic of a sentence, transform an aggressive name into something cute and more appropriated. 

Eamples: 

A male sub is owned by a master, thus guys like to be called as properties: At dom’s pleasure. 

Example of bdsm pet names:

A submissive and a dom both learn from each other in the course of a D/s relationship. Yet, the dom is the master leading the way and taking decisions, while the submissive is the one obeying and learning: as a father leading the way to a child. 

A good idea of sub names can follow those respective roles. 

Examples:

Stick to what a submissive is, a master’s pet.

Examples: 

Stick to what works! 

Sub or Subby will do just fine.

Please write a comment of what pet names you currently use in your relationship. Do you use a sub name in play or out of play or do you have a word that holds power enough to set the libido on fire? 

We would love to read your experiences and the why’s

Individuals in the realm of kink have the opportunity to craft their identity and D/s dynamics according to their own desires and preferences. Embracing genderfuckery and breaking traditional rules can allow for a personalized approach to self-expression within these dynamics. Through engaging in kink, BDSM, and fetish play, individuals are able to create a space where they can freely explore and shape their identity, establish unique relationship protocols, design their own sexual experiences, and construct a temporary reality that aligns with their individual needs and pleasures. This freedom to customize and tailor their interactions enables individuals to find empowerment, satisfaction, and fulfillment in the world of kink.

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