Everyone has a different idea of BDSM perfection and a different idea of dominance. We are complicated in our kinkiness and in our dominant submissive relationships. My perfect dominant is a woman, about my age, with whom I have a relationship outside of kink - She is my mistress and i am her slave.
"Being caged while serving and pleasuring my wife is unexpectedly more exciting and fulfilling for me than I ever expected and she is finding that my attention to her and herpleasures has been taken to a new levelas well. A true win-win. The way things are going I am not sure she will ever unlock me, and at this point I am totally ok with it. "