INTRODUCTION TO COCK SUCKING FOR BEGINNERS

Cock sucking is not just to suck dick, it's a mouth job

Communication

Newbies must feel free to talk about their blowjob likes and dislikes, and the possibilities of getting more adventurous. If there were highlights of the relationship or downsides, such must be discussed. All these are required to ensure that you are both on the same page with cock sucking. If you're new to this, check out our beginner's guide to cock sucking for more tips.

The Tease

How about a big kiss first thing in the morning, on his wakening cock? Do this and act as nothing happened for the rest of the day. You can also send him texts on how much he has been on your mind and your fantasies about sucking him in the evening. For more ideas on teasing your partner, explore our guide on tease and denial techniques.

The Warm Up

There is no universal rule or guide to how the blowjob warm-up should be. Feel free to get creative and come up with something that you both find arousing. Show him you are ready to do anything to please him, by eating sensually for instance or touching his dick when it expects it the least. Have him lie on his back while you are on top, taking care of warming up his stallion.  Kiss the sensitive parts of his body – his lower lip (while sucking slightly), neck, chest, stomach, while moaning intermittently. Repeat the kissing and sucking process all over even after unbuttoning his pants.  Finally, return to his bulge and squeeze it gently.  Kiss him again on the lower lips and trace your way down there with your tongue.  That’s a great way to prepare for real action.

The Blow job

This is the spicy part, and we will consider the positions first.  Suitable positions include kneeling in front of him while he stands or sits, or you scooched between his legs while he lies down.   The best position would be determined by you both, but the second option offers more relaxation for him and easy access for you. The perfect blowjob is custom made and perfected over the years. You can also record videos to evaluate what you both liked about the blowjob, similar to evaluating your performance at a job.

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The Moves

Start by focusing on the sensitive spots, i.e., the spaces around his penis, and that includes the inner thighs and the lower stomach.

Next is the shaft, which is quite an important spot.  Most of the action revolves around the shaft, so if you want to do well, it is a part you must handle very well.  Lick the base of the shaft straight to the head and over the frenulum, then lick your lips before sliding them up and down the shaft again.  While at it, play around with the shaft a bit, but be gentle.  The shaft is extremely delicate; on no account should you use your teeth.  If you want to, use your tongue to cover the lower teeth.  Your tongue should be up and running all over the place, especially the head.  Put your hands to good use to – hold the penis and drive up and down with palm rounded about it. If your hand appears rough, add some lube to remove that friction and make it really gliding.  Using both hands is okay.  While doing the up and down gliding, continue to suck on the penis head gently.

Let's move to the balls. Shower them with gentle massages while you are busy with the shaft. It is okay to use your mouth on the balls, but not your teeth. The extreme sensitiveness of the balls will take your man to cloud nine if you handle them well. Lick gently and suck the balls while you are stroking the penis. For those interested in more intense ball play, you might want to explore CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) techniques.

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The Climax

If you are doing it right, you would expect your partner to get to the edge at some point and need to spill their cum.  To avoid the awkward rush that comes with this intense feeling, it is best that your partner cums in your mouth.  This leaves you with two options – swallowing or spitting.

• Spitting – After he has cum in your mouth, you simply spit it out, probably in the sink, towel, or somewhere else. Alternatively, you can open your mouth and let it flow down his cock after which you clean it up.

• Swallowing – This is not as simple as spitting. Go for this option if you are sure you are okay with the texture or taste of the cum. While it is okay for him to cum in your mouth, it is not compulsory, and you do not have to swallow.  Although swallowing makes things less messy and it is a great turn on for some guys, it is absolutely okay if you decide not to.

Others

Here are some extra tips that can add more spice and enjoyment to cock sucking for both partners;

• Be vocal while at it. Moan intermittently and let him know you also enjoy it as much as he does. It also turns him on more.
• Maintaining eye contact can make him more aroused, and strengthens the bond while you are at it.
• Run your hands through his skin while at it and scratch your nails along his stomach and chest. Better still, hold him at the hips or grab his hands. This sure shows that you mean business.
• Lustful facial expressions while blowing him can be very arousing. Take one long look at him while grinning before finally taking him in your mouth.
• When you are both done, kiss and cuddle him. It is the perfect ending!

Learning Advanced Moves

Here are some challenging and advanced moves that you may try out;

• Deepthroating – This is a skill that must be learned, except you are a natural deep-throater. To deepthroat, take his cock back far inside your mouth and maintain that position for a few seconds.  It is an amazing feeling for the man regardless of the size of the dick.

• Dominance and Submission – This is an advanced move that bothers on communication.
  If you are going to be a sub during a BJ session, you both should discuss it beforehand.
  The same goes for when he is going to be the sub.
  In the case of the latter, you can place your arms on his legs (while sitting), thus holding up your body weight.
  Alternatively, you can use restraints.
  If you are going to be the sub, he may grab your head or hair with his hands, and fuck your mouth – the same way he thrusts into your vagina but at a slower pace. If you're interested in exploring more about dominance and submission, check out our comprehensive guide to BDSM.

• Snowballing - Snowballing is not for everyone. In snowballing, you both swap the cum between each other’s mouth after he must have cum into your mouth. Ensure that you both have a mutual understanding before snowballing.

There is no limit to the level of fun and sensual satisfaction that comes with blowjobs.  And if your BJ game is very tight, it is definitely one of the ways you can get to your man’s heart.  A BJ session can be foreplay or the main course, depending on you both.  In either case, you can rest assured of an exciting sexcapade.

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