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05-06-2018 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


30 Ideas for submissive discipline | Bdsm Punishments


The list is oriented for Femdom and male humiliation, however it can be adapted for women slaves. To be truly owned, a sub must be constantly reminded throughout the day Master’s control, this is a key tool in any Dom/Sub relationship. A slave will feel loved & owned only when the Mistress exert their dominance and do not ignore any transgressions. Be consistent & enforce the rules!

 

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  1. Make him wear a chastity device– Deny orgasms for X number of days, weeks, or months. He will be at your mercy and ready to please any demands.
  2. If he doesn’t like collars, make him wear one around the house. If he loves the collar, take it away.
  3. Have him wear slave bells. The jingling of the bells is a certain reminder of his submission.
  4. Deny him attention or the right to come over and see you. Psychological torture.
  5. Make him serve you dinner and wait on you in the nude while you eat.
  6. Make him do the daily chores around the house with a vibrating butt plug in his ass.
  7. Make him act as an object or a piece of furniture. A coffee table or a coat hanger will do just fine.
  8. Increase the experience by having guests over and making him act as an objects.
  9. Choose a food he dislikes and have him eat a small portion every day of the week.
  10. Have him get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before, laid out, ironed.
  11. Have him bring a warm towel and massage your feet at the end of each day.
  12. Each night, he is to kneel next to bed asking permission to sleep with his mistress.
  13. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and sign a sub/Dom contract.
  14. When appropriated, he is to speak only when spoken to.
  15. Instruct him that he is never to touch you without your permission.
  16. In a cuckold relationship, make your sub give oral pleasure to your bull or to another slave present in the room.
  17. Make him do naked exercise – push ups, crunches, etc.
  18. Talk about how and why he disappoints you.
  19. Make him dress in female clothes all day.
  20. Make him eat from a pet dish, or on a plate if they usually eat from an animal bowl.
  21. Mark things on their body such as “Property of…”, “Dirty pig” or “Cum eater”
  22. Schedule him a Brazilian wax. Why not keep it clean.
  23. Make him hold pennies against a wall, one for each finger, in whatever position you choose.
  24. Make him kneel on uncooked rice for 3 minutes and then clean it up.
  25. Make him wear tits clamps with a stuffed bra, with his hands bound behind he must lean into a corner.
  26. Speak about him as he was not present.
  27. Videotape your sessions and watch them together.
  28. Make him fall asleep with his nose stuck in your asshole, tell him you expect him to be there when you wake up.
  29. Buy him a polaroid camera and tell him to take pictures of himself in certain outfits or positions.
  30. Master’s word is the last word.

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Safety and Consent


Pre-Scene Negotiation: Emphasize the importance of clear communication and negotiation between partners before engaging in discipline or punishment scenes. Outline how limits, safewords, and boundaries should be discussed.

Safewords and Safe Signals: Encourage the use of safewords or gestures (especially when gags are involved) to ensure that the submissive can communicate if the punishment becomes overwhelming.

Aftercare:Include a section on aftercare and why it's essential for both parties, with examples of physical and emotional aftercare practices.

Emotional Safety: Discuss how certain punishments can evoke strong emotional responses and why emotional safety is as crucial as physical safety.


Psychological & Emotional Aspects


Punishments vs. Play:Differentiate between punishment as part of a consensual BDSM dynamic and play for mutual enjoyment. Explore the psychological aspects of punishment, such as shame, humiliation, or reward-based submission.


Headspace: Address how punishments can affect the submissive’s headspace and the power dynamics involved in discipline. Highlight the role of power exchange and trust in making these punishments effective and fulfilling.


Tailoring Punishments: Suggest ways to tailor punishments to suit individual submissives' preferences, limits, and desires. What might work for one person may not for another.


Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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