Happy Locktober!
Happy Locktober!
05-06-2018 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
The list is oriented for Femdom and male humiliation, however it can be adapted for women slaves. To be truly owned, a sub must be constantly reminded throughout the day Master’s control, this is a key tool in any Dom/Sub relationship. A slave will feel loved & owned only when the Mistress exert their dominance and do not ignore any transgressions. Be consistent & enforce the rules!
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Pre-Scene Negotiation: Emphasize the importance of clear communication and negotiation between partners before engaging in discipline or punishment scenes. Outline how limits, safewords, and boundaries should be discussed.
Safewords and Safe Signals: Encourage the use of safewords or gestures (especially when gags are involved) to ensure that the submissive can communicate if the punishment becomes overwhelming.
Aftercare:Include a section on aftercare and why it's essential for both parties, with examples of physical and emotional aftercare practices.
Emotional Safety: Discuss how certain punishments can evoke strong emotional responses and why emotional safety is as crucial as physical safety.
Punishments vs. Play:Differentiate between punishment as part of a consensual BDSM dynamic and play for mutual enjoyment. Explore the psychological aspects of punishment, such as shame, humiliation, or reward-based submission.
Headspace: Address how punishments can affect the submissive’s headspace and the power dynamics involved in discipline. Highlight the role of power exchange and trust in making these punishments effective and fulfilling.
Tailoring Punishments: Suggest ways to tailor punishments to suit individual submissives' preferences, limits, and desires. What might work for one person may not for another.
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