Happy Locktober!
Happy Locktober!
23-11-2019 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
Advancing from simple male chastity to cuckolding chastity is an exciting move in a relationship. Yet, it is not always a natural transition, considering that the man in the picture does not especially fantasies about his wife cuckolding him. The process is also somewhat slow-moving from chastity to the introduction and adoption of the new dimensions of cuckolding. Cuckold training involves some periodic sex denials, which, according to most people, is the most exciting part of the journey.
In addition to taking away your much-needed orgasms, chastity cuckolding also involves your wife giving other men orgasms without you getting any. Imagine your pathetic cock staying locked in the micro chastity cock cage while your wife pleasures another man’s hard on.
Cuckolding is the aspect added to “standard” chastity play, a combination bringing painful pleasure to many men. This fetish is getting so popular that several cuckold dating sites are designed to help men meet their cuckold partners or undergo Cuckold training.
After the man has gotten used to semi-permanent or permanent male chastity (when the cock is locked in a cage for long period of time) – the female keyholder can start exploring a cuckold chastity lifestyle. Reaching such a level of dominance is rewarding in all instances of a dom/sub relationship.
Yet, not always an easy task for the keyholder. the caged may continuously beg to orgasm while constantly reiterating his unwillingness to be part of such a process in the first instance. He may also raise the issue of discomfort and the need for more frequent releases. The keyholder will need to be resolute and consistent to overlook these rants and pleads. Hence, a man that is willing to participate in permanent male chastity must be ready to do so on the terms of the keyholder.
Anything other than this will mean deviating from the conventional chastity arrangement. Although it requires consistent efforts and dedication, it all becomes smooth and enjoyable for both parties after the acceptance stage and the establishment of the dominance stage. It is common for the keyholder to worry about the lack of penetrative sex, considering that the penis is not available for intercourse. Even in rare cases where the penis is released, an attempt to penetrate will feel very foreign and lead to a premature, hair-trigger orgasm.
Anything other than this will mean deviating from the conventional chastity arrangement. Although it requires consistent efforts and dedication, it all becomes smooth and enjoyable for both parties after the acceptance stage and the establishment of the dominance stage. It is common for the keyholder to worry about the lack of penetrative sex, considering that the penis is not available for intercourse. Even in rare cases where the penis is released, an attempt to penetrate will feel very foreign and lead to a premature, hair-trigger orgasm.
The keyholder will find such sexual incompetence unsatisfactory for her own pleasure, thus forcing her to resort to dildo or other toys to get penetrated. However, what happens when the keyholder prefers a real penis than sex toys? This is when, Chastity Cuckolding comes into the picture.
Many men fantasize about being cuckolded by their wife or another keyholder. However, only a few can live with the emasculation, humiliating feelings, jealous, and inadequacy that come with the lifestyle. For them, the entire arrangement can be disgusted, especially the part where they are forced to watch their significant partner have sex with some random men.
Perhaps, such men have failed to realize that in this game, the woman entirely calls the shot. Hence, she wants all her needs and desires met. The fact that the man or his genitals are unavailable doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve to be pleasured. Considering these compromises, it is essential for a couple involved in a male chastity lifestyle to build the same on a strong and inequitable foundation. With such a formidable foundation, attaining the emotional intimacy required for such a special relationship becomes easier.No couple should go into a chastity cuckold relationship without putting in many thoughts and salient considerations.
Once the decision to move from male chastity to male cuckold chastity has been made, the keyholder can now exercise her freedom and, of course, feminine power. There are two men at her disposal – a compliant and responsive man that meet her daily needs (The cuck)and another one that she can go on sexual escapades with (the bull).
So, chastity cuckolding is an avenue for the keyholder to show her dominion of dominance and simultaneously remind and reaffirm the submission of the man. Here are some popular chastity cuckolding most keyholders like to explore as part of Cuckold training or lifestyle;
Each of these scenes is all fun for the keyholder but rather humiliating and devastating for the chastity cuckold. Yet, she is fulfilling the cuckold fantasy.
Male chastity and cuckolding or sissy cuckold will turn out to be an excellent symbiotic relationship if only both parties are ready to do what is required of them in their respective roles. The lifestyle is one that can give a man the most intense waves of submission and servitude.
Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com.
Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer.
"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure"
Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices for educational and entertainment purposes.