02-05-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


ABDL COMMUNITY

The BDSM community is one big umbrella with a variety of interests to explore. ABDL play is one of those interests. However, like a lot of other BDSM subcultures, the ABDL relationship dynamics is one that has been misunderstood.


Read this article to know what it is and why members of the community use chastity devices to explore their interests.


WHAT IS THE ABDL COMMUNITY?


The ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) community is a subculture that centers around the practice of adult baby play and diaper fetishism. ABDL is a relatively new BDSM subculture that has gained popularity in recent years.

 

Members of the ABDL community are often interested in exploring elements of ageplay, domination, submission, and other aspects of BDSM.


WHY DO ABDL ENTHUSIASTS USE CHASTITY DEVICES


One of the ways that members of the ABDL community explore their interests is through the use of chastity devices. Take a look at some reasons they are drawn towards chastity devices;

 

  • In the context of ABDL play, chastity devices can be used as a way of enforcing a caregiver/infant dynamic, with the caregiver holding the key to the chastity device and controlling the infant's sexual activity. However, the use of chastity devices in ABDL play is not necessarily about denying sexual pleasure, but rather about exploring power dynamics and control.
  • Also, some members of the ABDL community use chastity devices as a way of introducing an element of discipline and obedience into their play which is an element of age play.
  • Chastity devices are also a perfect way of incorporating humiliation or shame into a BDSM session. Being in chastity makes the wearer feel exposed and vulnerable which is something a core need of the bottom in a BDSM relationship.

Here's what Evelyn Dellcero on Quora has to say about chastity devices and the ABDL dynamics;

 

"...Yes it is very possible to wear a chastity device under a diaper and have seen it before in the ABDL community, because remember babies aren't supposed to have sex. So yes, a very big thing in the AB community…'

 

Cubbit801 on Reddit also shares their personal thoughts and experience on chastity and the ABDL community;

 

'...Also, chastity simply helps with wetting, in my experience. It forces the penis in such a way that it’s easier for pee to reach further back in the diaper so you end up being able to use more of the diaper before changing, and it prevents “morning wood” and “wood” in general, which make it difficult bordering on impossible to pee through. Preventing the wood means I can simply focus on letting go and it’s no problem. So overall, though I concede it’s not for everyone, there are definitely plenty of benefits to chastity with regards specifically to diapers and Abdl..'


BEST MALE CHASTITY CAGES FOR PEOPLE IN THE ABDL COMMUNITY


Decided to incorporate chastity devices to tour play, ensure you choose a device that is both safe and comfortable to wear for extended periods of time. Here are some of the best chastity cages for those interested in exploring the ABDL chastity lifestyle for a male wearer:



This thoughtfully crafted device for ABDL enthusiasts, combines elements of comfort, security, and discretion to create a safe and exciting experience for individuals who enjoy both the ABDL and BDSM lifestyles.


Unlock a new world of pleasure and control with our Pacifier Chastity Cage.


This cute design in bright pink is the ideal companion to reveal the piglet in you. 

You can be messy, you can be dirty, you can be taken care of. What any Abdl practitioner is in essence. 


This sleek and discreet chastity device is made from bio-resin. 


It is available in a range of sizes to ensure a comfortable fit and is designed for long-term wear and for short term play. The design is ergonomic and fit to body shape, like a penis cocoon you wish to comfort in.


Who didn’t like dinosaurs when they were kids? Put a toy like chastity cage on your willy and let your partner play with it. Quality 3D print in Nylon material

5. SIMPLE PLASTIC CHASTITY CAGE (ECONOMY OPTION)


Why break the bank when you just want a once in a while chastity play? Go and try a plastic version which comes with a range of ring sizes to not guess around and just try it on the spot. 


Expensive is not always the solution when you can be offered value for money. We recommend the pink cage for a cute little penis prison.

If you're looking for a place to purchase all these chastity devices and a lot more, oxy-shop is a sure plug.


FAQS


● IS CHASTITY PLAY IN AN ABDL RELATIONSHIP DANGEROUS?


Chastity devices can be a fun and fulfilling way to explore the dynamics of power and control in an ABDL relationship. However, you must only engage in it after you've gotten adequate knowledge on the proper use and care. desires. With the right education, communication, and equipment, the ABDL chastity lifestyle can provide a safe and satisfying experience for all involved.


● HOW SHOULD I CHOOSE THE RIGHT CHASTITY DEVICE FOR MY ABDL PARTNER?


In choosing the perfect chastity device for ABDL play, it is important to choose a chastity device that is both safe and comfortable to wear for extended periods of time. You must also discuss with your partner and come to an agreement on desires, boundaries, and expectations.


CONCLUSION


The use of chastity devices is one of the many tools used by members of the ABDL community to explore power dynamics and control to build a fulfilling BDSM relationship. However, like every other BDSM activity, chastity play in ABDL dynamics must be consensual and safe. Also, if you are a newbie in ABDL and the use of chastity devices, ensure you take the time to gain knowledge on the proper use and care of these devices. Also, engage in this play with only trusted people. Good luck!

 

Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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