01-12-2019 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


BDSM Fetish Retreat and Vacation Spots 


Are you on the lookout for a spot for your next BDSM getaway? BDSM is more fun and pleasurable when the environment is right. Imagine a private outdoor location where you can let out your screams of ecstasy without fears of intrusion, with the sun or the moon majestically complementing the already beautiful moment.  There are a couple of such spots, and we will take a look at them in this article.


The first on our list is  “La Domaine Esemar,” a “bed and bondage” spot situated near Albany, New York. After a sumptuous king like feast, “La Domaine Esemar” offers medieval-themed scenario, with vintage knight helmet and fraternity paddle. 

There are trained subs acting as valets who move your bags, serve you foods and beverages, and are open to helping you with massages and other forms of pampering. The facility demands that you seek and gain their consent before touching any of the valets. With just $350, you can enjoy a decent stay in the Chateau, including a bed, breakfast, and express access to the massive 12,500 square foot dungeon where all the actions go down. 


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There is just one guest room in the manor, although the place manages to accommodate over 150 travelers in a month. It is a common practice for subs to sleep in the dungeon while their partners camp out in the backyard. 


Not surprisingly, kinky travelers are getting more options when it comes to BDSM travel destinations and accommodations. For instance, the Tourism Management Journal recently published a piece on the impending transition of BDSM into a mainstream trend. According to the paper, tourism officials need to “understand deviants,” considering the fresh transition of BDSM into a “new trend for tourist consumption.” A pointer to this fact, perhaps, is the continuous creation and adoption of new bed and dungeon arrangements in recent times. 

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For example, the Hoxton Dungeon Suite, situated in London, offers comfy, private, and soundproof rooms for BDSM practitioners. 


There is also a full-length cage, a vac bed, a whipping bench, as well as a St. Andrews Cross, among others. The management of the facility guarantees guests a the upmost sanitary stay – everything being disinfected in between guests.

Another top BDSM/fetish retreat and vacation destination option is the Casa Carisma. The site is situated in Italian Riviera. 


Although the management of this facility has managed to stock its website with irresistible sales pitches and copies, they seem to offer just the right facilities for SM fans. Yes, the facilities are not luxurious standards, but they sure get the job done, especially their full-size outdoor cage. 


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Let’s also mention the website KinkBnb, which offers a decent rage of shareable dungeons bookable online. Apart from being the pioneers of this trend, they seem to offer the best out there. Now you can conveniently reserve SM spaces for yourself and your partner in different locations, including the lofts in San Francisco, the Leipzig’s prison cells, or Hollywood’s classic dungeon.  The platform boasts of a directory that includes about 300 bookable rooms spread across more than 40 countries worldwide. KinkBnb is also on the verge of creating a “reputation network based on the paradigm of a ‘kinky passport’ that will keep track of the lodgings and activities of users. According to its CEO, Darren Mckeeman, guests who rent more frequently will get more stamps from different top dungeons, which will, in turn, raise their chances of getting approved in new dungeons and SM locations. 

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While the concept of bed and dungeons has not been around forever, something similar in the form of dominatrix has existed all along. According to Anne O. Nomis (not a real name), who authored “The History of the Dominatrix,” dominatrix had always existed as some sort of boarding school. They could be “very grand establishments, stationed in multi-roomed large houses.” This started as far back as the 1800s in England, and such facilities serve as training grounds for upcoming doms. Nomis says that the slaves are usually locked in a cage until the dominatrix comes around to try different treatments with them. 


Last on our list is Esemar – a getaway destination that amazingly indulges guests in between sessions. Despite being an outdoor play space, Esemar is known for its great atmosphere and privacy, with tall woods surrounding everywhere. The owners of Esemar believe their space is perfect for guests that are looking for where they “can do anything they want without anyone hearing their screams of pleasure.”


So pack your oxy gearsand hope on a place – an extravaganza experience awaits. 


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Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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