05-08-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


Combining BDSM and Hypnosis

A lot of people do not understand the relationship BDSM has with hypnosis. So it's not surprising that there are plenty of misconceptions surrounding hypnosis BDSM.

 

There's also the set of people that think it's dangerous or scary and the set that have expectations of it that can never be met. This  article will educate you on everything about BDSM and hypnosis and if they work or not.


Combining BDSM and Hypnosis

WHAT IS HYPNOSIS?


Let's start with what hypnosis is not. Hypnosis is not a magic tool to force someone to do whatever you want.

 

Hypnosis is a manipulation of an altered state of consciousness for a desired purpose. We may get some points of BDSM hypnosis from   from the words here:

 

  • Manipulation - The dom in a hypnosis BDSM scene attempts to change and control the bottom's physical, mental and/or emotional state.
  • an altered state of consciousness - The top tries to send the bottom into a 'trance.'
  • a desired purpose - The top uses hypnosis to achieve specific objectives, like training the bottom to orgasm on command.

WHY DO PEOPLE ENGAGE IN HYPNOSIS BDSM?


  • People use hypnosis in BDSM to condition their partners to have an orgasm or assume certain positions on command which would be a subconscious process. Although this is quite possible without hypnosis, hypnosis makes it done a lot faster and easier.
  • Another reason people engage in hypnosis BDSM is to magnify and deepen sensations during sensation play. For instance, a dom might hypnotize their sub to think their elbow is an erogenous zone.
  • Also, hypnosis BDSM helps to spice up role play as it immerses the hypnotized into the headspace of a role they're supposed to play. For example, a sub into puppy play might benefit from a BDSM hypnosis that guides them into the thoughts, feelings and experiences a puppy might have.
  • Finally, the therapeutic benefit of BDSM hypnosis is one reason people engage in it. It helps to take away the worries or insecurities of the participant in order to open them up to deeper levels of submission. If someone finds it hard to submit to a dominant, you could use hypnosis to find out what’s preventing his submission, and perhaps take away the root causes.

 

See what on deleted on Reddit says about hypnosis BDSM;

 

"...Yes it's working. You can make a woman orgams with just your voice. Generally I condition women to get horny with one word of command. Or to act as a cat…"


SAFETY MEASURES AND CONSENT TIPS IN BDSM HYPNOSIS


Hypnosis in and of itself is safe. However, what you do with someone in a hypnotized state can be dangerous. It can vary from harmless bed games to heavy edge play. This is why you need to incorporate safety measures and consent tips. Take a look at some;

  1. As with all forms of BDSM, you must discuss wishes and boundaries with regards to hypnosis play in a way that fits your relationship. Establish your  interests in hypnosis BDSM, as well as  preferences or limits.  Also, clarify if it is okay to touch them in specific places while they're in a state of trance or not. BDSM hypnosis can be done with or without physical contact.
  2. Preferably do hypnosis BDSM with someone you trust. First, it helps you to go into hypnosis easier and deeper, but it’s also great if you can trust your hypnotist not to do things to you without your consent.
  3. There might be a negative reaction during BDSM hypnosis where there's a spontaneous regression for the subject. Make sure that your hypnotist knows how to handle such a situation.
  4. Don't do hypnosis BDSM while you or your partner are under the influence of drugs or alcohol, especially if you're not really familiar with one another. Boundaries tend to be difficult to keep while people are under the influence.
  5. Establish a simple gesture or movement the individual can make if they experience discomfort during the session. They may find it difficult to express themselves verbally while they're deeply in the zone so safe words can't really be used here.

HOW DO I LEARN HOW TO DO BDSM HYPNOSIS?


Learning BDSM hypnosis is not difficult. In fact, you'd find a lot of videos of this on YouTube. But learning hypnosis goes way beyond that.

 

There are so many things to learn; from formulating suggestions effectively and safely that increase your chances of success to learning how to get someone out of hypnosis and how to deal with spontaneous negative reactions.

 

Given this, the most ideal way to learn will be  to participate in a workshop or course in  BDSM hypnosis. There are one-day hypnosis courses that can provide a foundation to start experimenting with simpler aspects of hypnosis. These courses are often facilitated by companies or trainers who also teach broader hypnosis. If you want more depth, you could take a course in hypnotherapy. There are many available, from 7 day to three-year professional courses.

 

Learning from someone in the BDSM scene who has the knowledge and experience is also a great option. You could also join communities such as Fetlife. They have several groups on BDSM and Hypnosis,  where you can seek advice.

 

You can also read and study great books on hypnosis. There are plenty of them, from more therapeutically oriented ones to the ones explaining hypnosis for stage shows.

 

Here's what Melvin Marsh on Quora advises people who want to learn BDSM hypnosis to do;

 

"...My advice as someone who has done the professional dom hypnotist thing, I would suggest exploring BDSM itself first and get your feet wet. Then when you are sure it is what you want, go actually properly learn hypnosis from a real school and then apply professional knowledge to the situation. You will have a much better experience and your scenes will be much more sexually and emotionally fulfilling."


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FAQS


● IS IT POSSIBLE I STAY IN BDSM HYPNOSIS AFTER A SESSION?


You can’t stay “in it”. In the worst case scenario, you would fall asleep and wake up normally. Also, if something goes against your deepest morals, you will most likely pop out of trance before the session is over.


● IS IT POSSIBLE THAT I CAN'T GET INTO BDSM HYPNOSIS?


Almost everyone can get hypnotized during BDSM. Only a few people are hard to hypnotize or can’t go into hypnosis at all. However, some people get hypnotized easier and deeper than other people.



CONCLUSION


When used correctly, BDSM hypnosis is a great way to spice up a D/S relationship. However, consent and safety must be emphasized. It is also not an evil concept as many people think it to be. We wish you good luck as you explore the idea.


Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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