Looking to become the ideal dominant wife to your sub. Here are some golden rules you should abide by. 

The ideal sexual re-orientation process for a man should incorporate the pleasure that comes with allowing his woman to take charge of sexual affairs. This is called male chastity, and many couples have leveraged it to strengthen their relationships or marriages further. Male chastity can be complex or simple, depending on the parties involved. However, either way, it is naturally designed to improve the sex-life of a woman. Hence, ensure that you train your man on how to prioritize your sexual desires over his. Note that male chastity comes with less or zero freedom. The woman owns the pleasure and decides when to allow the man to have it or not.

It is normal for your man to scream unusually at first. However, with time, he will get used to the pains and find ways to transition them into pleasure. At this point, he loses his customary masculine edge and adopts a gentle and cooperative nature. You will find him more submissive than ever, while his erogenous zone moves from the tip of his penis to the opening of his asshole and prostate gland. This is why experts recommend that you give your man a great fuck once in seven days.

As a femdom wife, your submissive partner shouldn’t be at liberty to choose his undergarments by himself. Instead, be the one to decide whether they can wear underwear and the exact type to wear. As part of your dominance, you may choose to have them wear girly panties or the conventional male briefs. Once you have decided what you want them to wear, lay them out before bedtime daily. You can even take things a bit further by asking him to step out in holdup stockings. Although this will not be obvious to other people, it will ensure that he doesn’t forget his status throughout the day.

As a dominant wife, you must create and adhere strictly to a weekly discipline schedule for your submissive partner. Choose a particular day of the week when you will put him through a comprehensive spanking session, either over your lap, the edge of the bed, or the back of a chair. You may also add a scolding session where you reprimand his recent lackadaisical attitudes (if any), as well as the impressive things he has done over the past week. Among other things, these sessions help to remove laziness and express your accumulated displeasure. The harder you spank, the more frustration you dissipate. Never try to give or derive pleasure in a spanking or venting session. Instead, set out to deliberately pass a lesson to your partner through spanking. 

This might appear as beneficial to only you, but in reality, it benefits your partner also. Being the dominant partner here, you are entitled to some great periodic sex, as well as the pleasure that comes with cuckolding your partner. With your partner’s tiny penis locked up, there is little or nothing they can do to satisfy you sexually. However, you can still explore and fulfill all your sexual fantasies and desires (alongside his) with another man. Be ready to put in the work to find a befitting and competent man for the job. Although this may take time, it is a better and safer way than fucking around with several partners.

You will need to put in a decent effort and some level of consistency to establish and run a FemDom relationship, so keep it simple. Now, the question is, how do you keep it simple? First, spanking should be once a week, except in rare cases where he has warranted some more punishment. Likewise, a single spanking session must not exceed 15 minutes.